have you ever sit down and think, are you a person who is fair enough that you take and also give at the same time? or you are being a lucky one, which means you take most of the time...uh-uh, this relationship not gonna last long. Or you are the one giving and giving..tired of it yet? i've never think of this not until one day, when we were in this conversation ❤
She told me this
i don't wanna turn back one day and realize that all i have is fake friendships, i m done cultivating friendships
I replied
yea, this is so true, how come i never think of this b4
She said this again
what is your definition of friendships? a person you can really trust? or someone you can just spend time with?
I answered
i dont really noe how i define friendships, just that if i don't like you as a friend, i will not be close or i will even avoid being with you.
and also, a person i can trust is what i call erm...closer than close friends
someone i can spend time with and have fun is friends
She asked
so whats your defination of close friends? in between friends and your so called closer than close friends?
I replied
haha, kinda...in between!!!! Close friends are those with common topics and thoughts and share some secrets together..eh, there are lots of in between, i can't really conclude which and which is in which group...its complicated, i have friends between close friends and my so called closer than close friends okay?
She asked again
do you have true friends?
I said
yea, of coz!!!
Then now she said this
thats why i say....i m done cultivating friendships, that i don't wan to turn back at some time of my life looking back having alot of fake friendships and least true friends
*light bulb* me said:
oh yeah, TRUE FRIENDS NEED NO CULTIVATION, they grow by heart
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14 comments:
yeah....close on heart...just accept it....c yeah
True friendship is when one is truthful to oneself and be truthful to others,,,,, that's so simple, aint it?
oh, i dun trust people at all. i assume everyone will turn on me eventually someday - so i'm never disappointed. very safe, haha
finding a true friendship just like finding diamond in broken glass.. I had meet a person b4.. i thought she was my best friend.. but at the end.. she betrayed me.. & until now.. we had lost in contact.. ^^
hope u found the TRUE FRIENDSHIP.. ^^
vialentino: yea, true....close on heart
eugene: yea yea...be truthful, and tats true frenship...agree with you^^
kok s3n w4i: you are like one of my friends, he also told me so..not to trust andyone then he wouldn't be sad and never will be disappointed..hehehe..
Pauline: yea, i have my true friends...and yes, i used to have a friend like your case...she betrayed me once, and i forgive her...and yet she did it again..so now we are not in contact anymore... HOPE YOU FOUND YOUR TRUE FRIENDSHIP TOO^^
friends are suppose to be true... fake ones are not meant to be kept...
True friends are those who do not have any benefits, interests, favours, profits between u two.
True are hard to find..
sorry...typo....close one heart...it will be if either a party tries hard to maintain...if both gets tired...dats it...the end of the road
woaini_87: yea, i agree with you
kelvin:yea lo..whenever there are these things in between, friendship will change...
aidiena: yes, so have to appreciate once we found the true one^^
vialention: hahahah..i tot you say keep friends close onto heart...yea yea...the party who tries hard to maintain will give up at the end...
all realtionships require cultivation, no matter how u look at it. u need to spend time with your friends oto maintain or further the relationship. no time spent = further distance apart
lukey: i understand your cultivation, and yea, no time spent = further distance apart...but i think wat my fren meant of the cultivation is that she tolerate everything and trying very hard to maintain the relationship when the other party dun really care bout it.....
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